I see the potential of this site. But I'm just burned out...
Everything happening within Onlyfans with the fans is generally good, but everything that happens outside that... daayumm... so tiring as fuck.
If there are 2 things I wished I knew before starting is:
1- That I better work on being an influencer or gain popularity elsewhere BEFORE starting an OF or its gonna be a shitty game of endless promotion.
2- That it can be a very toxic environment. Most men will act entitled, spoiled and will waste your time trying to get most of you without subbing (try to meet with you, chitchat with you, get freebies, "help" you create content, "befriend" you). It's exasperating. Even some fellow content creators can be shockingly rude for no reasons whatsoever. Which brings to my next point to never take things personally.
It's so tiring to have these sneaky male friends that know you in real life and discovers your OF, then express how supportive they are but in action, they don't sub and ask for free content.
I'm so saturated with men that are so entitled, expecting me to please them. They never think about me, about what I get in return. I was advertising in Fetlife (my sole purpose on being on fetlife), and all these men just wanna hook up. The least they could do to grab my attention is sub to me and to show support. Instead they tentatively go like "I don't want to sub, but I was hoping we could talk and arrange a meeting :)" Excuse me? What do I get out of this? How can they have the audacity to suggest anything that only benefits them without considering my benefits in the equation? You're not putting anything on the table here! It's like asking a stranger if they'd be interested to give you money of their hard working paycheck :) *smiley face* (mind you, it did happen to an Onlyfans creator before) The girl is running a business here. You have no idea the number of guys asking you out and wanting to meet you on a daily basis with an Onlyfans. Now which one do you think a girl running a business would give their time to? Someone who sub and supports her business. Or someone who doesn't pay and ask for time together. C'mon man. The imbecility is exasperating.
The people who subbed to me have been genuinely nice however.. Very respectful, kind and supportive. It brings me much regret to turn my page free and be less consistent to take a break from the toxicity. I feel like I'm letting them down... but to begin with I didnt have enough fan to support the lifestyle, it wasnt profitable in the end, and that I am to be blamed - I know I didn't advertise as much as I could.
