"Stop blaming your parents, it’s your problem"

I hate it whenever I hear that... it's so annoying. People that say such things have never stepped into our shoes and can't understand where we're coming from. it's like hearing "look doesn't matter" from a pretty person, or "money doesn't matter" from a rich.

We don't just "get over" being raised by a narcissist. Trauma don't heal with time alone or the moment you turn 18. Children of Narcissist come out of there with the need of therapy in order to function normally as an adult, that's how severe and brutal our childhood wired us. They wouldn't be able to fathom it